it's so hard to do apologize and so do accept the apology

everybody have a mistake, even with their friends, their boy/girlfriend, their neighborhood, their classmates, their sister or brother, their parents, and also with themselves.

there are some factor that someone wouldn't and get the hardness to do apologize, such us like when they didn't know and didn't realize if they just did a mistake with the other. after that when they feel ashamed to do it with the people who just have been mistaken by them. next, when they get nervous to come to the people and get apology from them. and then they feel afraid if their apology will not accepted by the people. and the last is when the people getting hard by their mind which wouldn't do apologize, they just want the people do it first.

there are some factor that someone wouldn't and get the worst to accept the apology, such us like when they still on angry with the people who had a mistake with them, so they get difficult to accept the apology the people who do apologize to them. for the second is, when they get hurt with the people's behavior who always hurt them. and then when they feel afraid if the people will do the same mistake to them, and they won't get the hurt anymore by the people.





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for actually, when you did some mistakes, get yourself do apologize first and be sure if the people who had been hurt by you will accept your apology. and if you're the people who have got a mistake by the other, make your heart and yourself be honest and try to give them a chance to back to normal again by accept their apology.